MY SEXUALITY...

What Is My Sexuality? 

For years I thought i was bisexual. I never really mentioned it to anyone because I didn't feel the needed to tell people, it didn’t change me as a person so I didn't feel like it was relevant. I know some of my friends know or at least have an idea about it but we've never spoken about it. I think this is going to be the first time some of them an even my family are finding out so I will definitely be getting a few texts soon haha. Sexuality has never really bothered me, you are who you are and that’s that, it doesn’t define you as a person. 

Genders and sexualities aren't something I've ever been bothered about or even thought about much if I'm honest. I think if you like someone and have feelings for them then go ahead and do what you have to do, it doesn't matter if they are male or female or even if they don’t identify as a gender, IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!! 

Bisexuality is the freedom to like both genders. It doesn’t mean if I date a guy, then I'm straight and if I date a girl then I'm a lesbian. It simply means I like BOTH genders no matter who I date. It shocks me how people don't understand that.  

Am I really bisexual? 

After doing research I'm still unsure of what bisexuality actually means. I mean yes I like males and I like females but what if I like a male that has female genitalia, I haven't exactly ruled that out. If I have feelings for a male and then he tells me that he has female genitals, are my feelings then going to automatically stop and am I going to judge them because of their body parts? No, I don't think I will. In fact I know full well that I won't judge them and my feelings will definitely not stop. 

I've only ever had sexual experiences with males and females but I'm totally open to having relationships with everyone. 

I think pansexual is a term used which means you are attracted to all people, regardless of biological sex, gender identity, or expression. This is basically me but I'm still not happy. 

Why do people have to be put into categories and why do we all have to be labelled. 

I like humans and that is what I'm going to say from now on. 

I'm just going to be me.  

Love ya x